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On the cost of cynicism

It’s natural to think of cynicism compared to optimism, like we do with other opposites: dark and light, sorrow and joy, the Kansas City Chiefs and the Denver Broncos. (Monday night was rough for us Broncos fans.) Anyway, I mention opposites-thinking because it implies that the cost of

Shame Is Priced In

Having defended em dashes from the AI-shame brigade, you know where I stand on stigma as a strategy. Anil Dash makes the bigger version of the point: shame doesn't stop technology where its owners have accounted for it. What changes people is a better offer. Anil points

Focus Your Career on Progress

An excellent article on what happens when you orient your career towards progress. It’s written for career pivots, but has the kind of advice that can help college students in thinking about their first steps and all the ones that follow. A focus on progress is an active commitment

Tips on Asking for Help

Very good advice all around, and it almost all applies to people you know and people you don’t. My last heuristic is stranger: make it easy to say no. You might think that the worst outcome is a no, but the worst outcome is a pressured, begrudging yes. Your